If you have experienced Storytelling yourself, you probably have heard the phrase, "The story chooses you." I had heard it many times and it did make sense to me. You're going to tell a story that calls to you, that interests you, that you connect with. This part I understood very well. It wasn't until recently when I discovered the magic behind that phrase. I like to call it magic, anyway.
I was asked to be a presenter at a 4th Trimester Conference and the session would be Motherhood Storytelling. I was going to teach mothers how to tell their story in a way that empowered that and also could support other mothers on their journey. I was excited and nervous. This was my first time. However, Liz Warren, is the best cheerleader and I was feeling pretty confident. The only part where I was literally losing sleep over was that I could not figure out what story I was going to tell.
I had a very busy week leading up to the conference. It only made sense that I tell a story I had told before. Yet, a story about my son that I had not yet told but have always wanted to tell kept popping into my head. Over and over. I would entertain the idea and then think, "Nope. This is a bad idea. I don't have time to craft a new story."
The days went on and I would stay up incredibly late looking at the slideshow I had created hoping that I was able to magically know the story I was going to tell. The night before came, and I decided to go to bed still not knowing what I was going to tell. Nonetheless, as I was going to bed that night, I started to really entertain the thought of possibly just telling the story of my son that I had not told before.
I woke up super early that morning (I had only slept a few hours) and started writing out my thoughts. I started putting pieces together like a puzzle. Then I started to talk about the story and then I started to work in some crafting. My husband woke up and asked, "So how do you feel about your story?" I immediately answered, "I'm working on it right now!" He looked at me with a confused look and just let me be.
I did it. I told the story. The story that I didn't think I would have enough time for. The story that kept popping into my head and I was trying to push away.
After my presentation, a mother came up to me and said, "Your story about your son was literally like my story! I can't believe all the similarities and I want to talk to you more about it."
That's when I knew. "OH. The story was for you."
This is the part where that magic that I was talking about comes in. The story wanted to be told for her. It's one of those things that you don't need to explain. You just surrender and trust and let the story do its magic through you.
Maybe as the storyteller, we are also the listeners. We are listening within to know what story wants to be shared through us.
(The picture at the top of the post show's Nereyda presenting at the 4th Trimester Conference.)
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